A Quick Recap

I know it is so late that it hardly warrants a post, but this is more for me than you, I promise. Here are some quick pictures of what we have done since I last updated in December!

Gingerbread houses for FHE! We did an advent calendar this year, and this is one of the activities. It was great fun!

But of course, all Leila wanted to do was eat the candy.

Christian was a big help with the decorating, but he was definitely better at delegating than the actual labor

Miss Cheekies passed out after a long day

This sums up her personality so well. She does what she wants, when she wants, and looks like a doll!

My first taste of Dutch Brother's hot chocolate

This year, Jared and I were on a mission to find the best hot chocolate in the area. For each date, it ended with a new hot chocolate place. We rated the hot chocolate itself, and the whipped cream!

My handsome man and I went miniature golfing for my birthday date.

Decorating the tree!

The kids and I made sugar cookies, and the frosting HAD to be red, at CJ's request. It looked like a cookie massacre!

Elf Christian helping us pick out the perfect tree

 These next few pictures are just some of my favorite candid shots from the season!

It was a great holiday spent with great family and friends! We are extremely blessed. It was actually a difficult Christmas, with few presents exchanged, but I love my family and my kids and can't think of a better gift then just being together.

I will not leave you comfortless. I will come to you.

John 14:18.

I know there is so much blogging catch-up to do. Going back to work has given me a run for my money! There just doesn't seem to be enough time in my days! But today, I have something special to say.

Anyone close to me knows that life has been beating us down on several fronts at once. It is easy to be caught up in the sorrow, pain, suffering, and stress of it all. It is easy to feel "forsaken" of the Lord. To feel alone and comfortless. As the days turn into weeks and months, I think it becomes harder and harder to maintain focus and faith; that eternal perspective which keeps us sane and helps us put one foot in front of the other each day.

Today I had the most wonderful blessing, and I need to share it.

I have been running ragged and I have company coming tomorrow. My house was a disaster! So I decided to call a sister from my church who cleans houses to come and help! She was so kind and willing to work around my schedule...and my VERY tight budget. I felt blessed to have her come and help at all! As I ran out of the house to work, dragging my two kids with me, she said she would lock up the house on her way out. Wonderful! I paid her for 3 hours of work and just said that whatever she could get done in that time would be a huge help.

My husband came home almost 7 hours later, and text me that she was still at the house; that she had cleaned the entire place top to bottom! In a panic, I asked him how much more we owed her.

Nothing. She said it was a gift! A GIFT.

Verna Curtis, you are a Saint. You exemplify the love and charity of Christ. What may have seemed like a small sacrifice and gift of service for your friend was the reminder I needed that God hears and answers my prayers, and that I am not forgotten. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart!

Disneyland...again!

After Thanksgiving we decided to take a last-minute trip down to Disneyland so that we could use our annual passes again before they expire! It was complete craziness, and probably not a great idea, but overall, we had a pretty good time! The weather did NOT cooperate the first day, so we ended up cutting it a little short. I think we stayed about 9 hours, but we did get to go on the Cars ride, so Christian was happy!

The second day was a lot more successful. There was no rain and the crowds were a lot less. To top it off, my cousin Shauna came and hung out for a few hours. She makes EVERYTHING better!

The lines for the Dole Whip are usually so looooong! But apparently, if you get one at 10:00 in the morning, the demand is a lot lower ;)

Sleeping Beauty. She and I hung out while the boys did a few rides. Here she is snuggling with her favorite blanket and Princesses.

Christian and I on Autotopia. He is CRAZY driver

Jared and Christian were riding Radiator Racers and Leila was on the loose! Here she is at Flo's.

Up to no good, as usual.

Leila wanted toys.

She was a total shop lifter! I can't tell you how many times she grabbed one of these and ran out of the store before I finally dragged her out kicking and screaming!

This was our first time seeing The World of Color at California Adventure!

Leila looooooooved all the music from Frozen

Happy as a clam on Daddy's shoulders.

Here she is bending down to check in on Dad.

Just had to add this one. This is the morning after. SOMEBODY had a good time!

On the way home we stopped at IHOP. It was Jared and the kid's first time there

After being in a car all day she was completely nuts

All in all, it was a good trip. We are really going to miss our Disneyland adventures!

I finally understand

Today, I finally understand the difference between tired and...weary.

When I was working full time with two little kids, one a nursing infant, I was tiiiiiired. Exhausted, really. There was never enough time in the day. My days were long...sometimes being awake 20-22 hours of the day. It was non-stop. I remember being at work and being so tired that I would literally doze off as I was pumping milk for my baby's feedings the next day.

I remember that. And to you working moms, my hat is off to you. Please know I feel your pain. I am validating you.

Since Christian is not in school yet, this past year has been kind of a blur. I am tired and worn out, but in a different way. Instead of having a few hours with my kids each day and working hard to spend some of my best time with them, now I have them all day every day, except for a few precious hours each week I may get to myself. I still don't usually get enough sleep. Most nights Christian sleeps through without waking up, but Leila is still a wild card. I stay up later than I should working on the house, cleaning, doing projects I want to do, getting things done. I am tired. But more than anything I am WEARY.

I am weary from being a mom to two little kids with a husband who works two jobs to try and support us. I am weary from the endless dishes and laundry and cleaning and messes and potty training.
I am weary from trying to be a good mom AND a good wife AND a good member of my church AND a good friend AND a good and charitable person.
I am weary from carrying the guilt around that I am not a good enough Mom; that I need to be more. I hate feeling like my kids watch too much tv or don't eat what they should or don't have enough stimulation or that I don't read to them enough. I am weary from not feeling like I am ENOUGH.
I am weary from the stress of trying to cut our monthly costs more and more and more and still not having what we need. 

I got enough sleep last night thanks to a wonderful husband who took our screaming daughter to the couch. So I am not tired. I don't feel exhausted and like I need to go lay down.

And yet....

I feel like I need to go and lay down just from the sheer weight of my responsibilities. Am I the only one who feels that way? Probably. I seem to be the only mom that can't handle two kids with a smile and take them to all the activities and them come home and do crafts and teach them something new every day. I feel like the only mom who can't seem to stick to a budget. I feel like the only mom who can't manage my household and find time to do a job on the side. Am I? Am I the only one?

Leila: Months 17-18

Let me begin by saying that I have decided I am stopping her monthly updates after this post. I just want to write that down so that when I look back I won't think I just started slacking. I realized that with Christian I stopped doing the monthly updates at 12 months, so really, I am just being an over-achiever anyway!

Okay, with that out of the way, here's a look at Leila during October and November! I wish I could say that things are better! I feel like every month there is a glimmer of a happy kid and so I focus on that when I post, but the past few months have been hard. Really hard. The things she does like are:

-The movie Frozen
-String Cheese
-Sweets
-Christian's Blanket
-Goldfish (that's new!!)
-Running off down the street
-Animals and soft plush toys
-Screaming, flailing and flopping while she throws a fit over not being understood

The things she hates are:

-Brushing her teeth
-Not getting her way
-Having her diaper changed (think, "Screaming Banshee")
-Vegetables and most fruit...and meat...and milk...it's a problem!
-Bows, headbands, rubber bands, or anything that keeps her crazy hair out of her face

 Playing on the wooden train with Christian. I took probably 25 different shots and NEITHER of them would look at me. Punks.

 She LOOOOOOVED crawling through the tunnel part of the train. SO cute.

Riding the carousel was, by far, her favorite activity at Bishop's Pumpkin Farm this year!

 This month, one of our family activities was going to pick mandarin's from a friend's house in Penryn. The kids had a blast. Leila really just liked running into the street, but whatev's. Here she is practicing jumping!

She's not short, she is crouching down, ready to jump!

 After mandarin picking, Jared had a quick haircut to do, so I dropped him off and the kids and I ran down to the McDonald's by his work to get an ice cream cone. She is happily eating Christian's cone in these pictures. When I tried to give it back to him she melted down. I am talking 45 minutes of complete and utter chaos. And yes, I was the crazy mom holding two crying kids as I am dragging them out of McDonald's, and yes...I was in tears too. So much fun!

 Other big news is that I have officially weaned her! I was just...done. I needed some space. I took the plunge and cut her off. She was NOT happy, but she hasn't died yet, so I consider it a win. To celebrate, she and I went and shared a cookies and cream milkshake from Chick-fil-a. Haven't had one yet? Go get one and thank me later.

I know, I know. You look at these pictures and think, "She is so sweet! How can her Mom say things like that about her???"

Here's how. Enjoy a tantrum.

Little girl feeds herself

On Halloween we took advantage of Chipotle's $3 Booritos! Leila pretty much took over my delicious burrito bowl as her own, but lucky for her she is cute so I didn't mind too much. Plus, I knew I would be eating all of her Halloween candy, so I figured it was an equal trade. Happy Halloween!